Edging: Is It For You?
If you’ve never heard of edging before, you’re behind with the times! This sex craze involves taking your partner to the point of orgasm then stopping, then starting the whole process all over again, and again, and again… you get the idea. If you can bring yourself back from the brink enough times, your eventual orgasm will be even more mind-blowing. Not sure if you have what it takes? Before you give it a try, these tips will help you make the most of your edging experience.
Communication and Control
One of the most important aspects to edging is, obviously, being able to resist the urge to orgasm straight away. If you can’t get the hang of this part, it’s probably not the kind of thing you’d enjoy. We know that stopping yourself from coming can be hard, but communication will makes things much easier. Rather than making your partner guess when you’re about to reach the point of no return, simply tell them. They’re not a mind reader, and they can’t be expected to know exactly when to stop in order to avoid making you come too soon.
If you’ve never tried edging before, we recommend finding someone that you feel comfortable enough to talk to during sex. We’re not saying you need to be in a serious relationship or anything, but at least try to find someone you can actually have a conversation with.
Practice Makes Perfect
Not everyone can master the art of orgasm control right off the bat, so don’t be discouraged if it takes you a while to get the hang of. Like most things in life, you probably won’t be great at edging straight away, and you’ll need to practise before you can improve. The first time you give edging a try, bring yourself back from the brink of orgasm just once or twice. The next time around, try to do it 3 times, then 4 times. The longer you can hold out, the more powerful your eventual orgasm will be. Stopping yourself from coming might make you a little crazy at first, but believe us, it will be more than worth the effort.
Give and Take
Edging is great and all, but both people involved must be willing to compromise in order for it to work. For example, one person may have such great orgasm control that edging them can take hours, which will inevitably become boring for the other person. By negotiating timeframes and expectations beforehand, there’s nothing to stop you and your partner from experiencing equal amounts of pleasure.
To find out if edging really is for you, why not try it with an escort? Our escorts are open-minded and very patient, and can use their talents to bring you to the edge of orgasm several times over. Make a booking today online, or by calling 02 9264 9400.
September 7, 2016 Blog