How to Tell Your Partner Your Sexual Fantasies
Romantic partners share everything with each other, right? Wrong. Many people still think that some things are better left unsaid. Namely, sexual fantasies. No matter how liberated you are, discussing your deep-seated desires isn’t easy. Whether you’ve been dating for a few months or a decade, revealing something so personal is kind of a big deal.
Despite the risks involved, talking about your sexual fantasies is the only way to act on them in real life. To help you navigate this topic without freaking out your partner, the following tips will help.
Give It Time
If your fantasies are particularly taboo, be careful who you confide in. Whether you’ve been dreaming of bondage or craving a threesome, not everyone is going to be into the same kinks as you. Sharing these kinds of fantasies with a new partner can be especially risky. If you don’t know the person you’re dating all that well, predicting their reaction will be more difficult.
You never know – they might be up for whatever you have in mind. On the other hand, they may be completely turned off. Unless you’re willing to put your relationship on the line, try to be patient. Wait until you feel comfortable with your partner before bringing up your fantasies.
Once you’ve gotten to know your partner a little better, then you can go ahead and tell them about your fantasy. However, it’s important to get a clear idea of what your fantasies actually look like first. Your partner will probably only agree to something if they know exactly what they’re getting themselves into. Rather than blurting everything out over dinner, figure out how to explain your fantasy in detail.
For example, if you’ve always dreamt of having sex outdoors (FYI this particular kink is known as exhibitionism), your partner should know that the risk of getting caught is what makes it so appealing. Trying to downplay your fantasy won’t work. Simply tell your partner exactly what you want and then leave it up to them to decide whether they want to participate.
Ignore the Haters
Are you worried that your partner might judge your fantasies? Unfortunately, this isn’t an unfounded fear. Some people just aren’t that sexually liberated, which can lead to a lack of understanding. If you decide to tell your partner your sexual fantasies, keep in mind that you run the risk of being kink shamed.
If your partner reacts negatively, don’t let it get you down. Everyone has different preferences when it comes to sex. Maybe you just need to meet the right person to share your fantasy with. If you want to indulge your desires with someone more open-minded, our escorts can bring your dream sexual scenario to life.
Only you can decide when to tell your partner your sexual fantasies. If you’re not quite ready yet, there’s nothing wrong with keeping them under wraps a little longer.
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February 3, 2017 Blog